Broken Promises
Suicide or murder? The fate of Russ Stager
To have one’s husband die from an accidental gunshot while in bed is tragic. But if the same thing happens again to another, might it mean murder?
Original air date: December 12, 2000
Posted: September 6, 2021
| Updated: January 24, 2022
By: Robert S.
Season 5, Episode 14
In North Carolina, the city of Durham is the home of Duke University and many of its faculty. When Barbara Ford, a secretary at the Duke University Medical Center met high school baseball coach Russ Stager, each knew they’d found their match. Barbara was a widowed mother of two young sons, and Russ was recently divorced after a four-year marriage. Courtship led to marriage, Russ’s adoption of Barbara’s children, and nine happy years of partnership. But the sound of a gunshot one fateful morning in February 1988 changed everything for the Stagers.
A gun that Barbara claimed Russ kept under his pillow had accidentally discharged when she attempted to move it one early Monday morning. Unfortunately, the bullet entered Russ’s head as he slept, and he died at the hospital three hours later. When investigators questioned Barbara, her father was found disposing of the bed linens, normally items that might’ve been considered evidence, expect the shooting had already been ruled an accident. But could further investigation indicate a positive motivation for Barbara to want Russ dead? The positioning of a shell casing, a video of the grieving wife attempting to reenact the events, and a haunting audio tape made by the victim just three days prior may hold the clues.
The Facts
Case Type: Crime
Crime
- Murder
Date & Location
- February 1, 1988
- Durham, North Carolina
Victim
- Russ Stager
Perpetrator
- Barbara Stager
Weapon
- .25 caliber pistol
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Broken Promises
The Evidence
Forensic Evidence
- Ballistics: Bullet trajectories
- Ballistics: Shell casing trajectories
- Document examination
- Firearm powder burns/stippling
- Handwriting
- Recorded narrative: Victim
- Reenactment
Forensic Tools/Techniques
- None used in this episode
Usual Suspects
No Evil Geniuses Here ?
- Scene staging: Misplaced shell casings
Cringeworthy Crime Jargon ?
- If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck, it's probably a duck
File This Under... ?
- Fake 911 call
- Graphic content
- Keep it in the family
The Experts
Forensic Experts
- None featured in this episode
Quotable Quotes
- "Her first husband had died, in bed, and was killed at the business end of a .25 caliber pistol, and so now we have a lady whose had two husbands killed in bed with a .25 caliber gun, and on both occasions she was present." - Eric Evenson: Prosecutor
- "90% of what we do is common sense, and then we applied the other 10% to law, and if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, by God, it’s going to be a duck." - Cpt. R. D. Buchanan: Homicide Investigator
- "She’s repositioning the body in the bed with her, trying to make it fit her story, and she can’t do it. She’s a lying-ass bitch. And that was probably vocalized, as I watched the video and replayed it and replayed it and replayed it. There was no doubt at all that she intentionally shot and killed Russ Stager. No doubt, whatsoever." - Cpt. R. D. Buchanan: Homicide Investigator
- "I think those of us who cared so deeply for Russ ranted and raved and felt this was so unfair to take someone so special and so kind. There’s never an answer to why. There’s never an answer to why evil wins sometimes." - JoLynn Snow: Russ Stager's Ex-Wife
TV Shows About This Case
- City Confidential: Durham: Dangerous Housewife (s07e01)
- The New Detectives: Women Who Kill (s04e06)
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