Broken Promises

Suicide or murder? The fate of Russ Stager

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To have one’s husband die from an accidental gunshot while in bed is tragic. But if the same thing happens again to another, might it mean murder?

Original air date: December 12, 2000

Posted: September 6, 2021  |  Updated: January 24, 2022
By: Robert S.

Season 5, Episode 14

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In North Carolina, the city of Durham is the home of Duke University and many of its faculty. When Barbara Ford, a secretary at the Duke University Medical Center met high school baseball coach Russ Stager, each knew they’d found their match. Barbara was a widowed mother of two young sons, and Russ was recently divorced after a four-year marriage. Courtship led to marriage, Russ’s adoption of Barbara’s children, and nine happy years of partnership. But the sound of a gunshot one fateful morning in February 1988 changed everything for the Stagers.

Both Barbara and Russ hoped to find love their second time around
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A gun that Barbara claimed Russ kept under his pillow had accidentally discharged when she attempted to move it one early Monday morning. Unfortunately, the bullet entered Russ’s head as he slept, and he died at the hospital three hours later. When investigators questioned Barbara, her father was found disposing of the bed linens, normally items that might’ve been considered evidence, expect the shooting had already been ruled an accident. But could further investigation indicate a positive motivation for Barbara to want Russ dead? The positioning of a shell casing, a video of the grieving wife attempting to reenact the events, and a haunting audio tape made by the victim just three days prior may hold the clues.

The Facts

Case Type: Crime

Crime

  • Murder

Date & Location

  • February 1, 1988
  • Durham, North Carolina

Victim

  • Russ Stager

Perpetrator

  • Barbara Stager

Weapon

  • .25 caliber pistol

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Broken Promises

The Evidence

Forensic Evidence

  • Ballistics: Bullet trajectories
  • Ballistics: Shell casing trajectories
  • Document examination
  • Firearm powder burns/stippling
  • Handwriting
  • Recorded narrative: Victim
  • Reenactment

Forensic Tools/Techniques

  • None used in this episode

Usual Suspects

No Evil Geniuses Here
?

  • Scene staging: Misplaced shell casings

Cringeworthy Crime Jargon
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  • If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck, it's probably a duck

File This Under...
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  • Fake 911 call
  • Graphic content
  • Keep it in the family

The Experts

Forensic Experts

  • None featured in this episode

Quotable Quotes

Captain Buchanan doesn't have a problem speaking his mind
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  • "Her first husband had died, in bed, and was killed at the business end of a .25 caliber pistol, and so now we have a lady whose had two husbands killed in bed with a .25 caliber gun, and on both occasions she was present." - Eric Evenson: Prosecutor
  • "90% of what we do is common sense, and then we applied the other 10% to law, and if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, by God, it’s going to be a duck." - Cpt. R. D. Buchanan: Homicide Investigator
  • "She’s repositioning the body in the bed with her, trying to make it fit her story, and she can’t do it. She’s a lying-ass bitch. And that was probably vocalized, as I watched the video and replayed it and replayed it and replayed it. There was no doubt at all that she intentionally shot and killed Russ Stager. No doubt, whatsoever." - Cpt. R. D. Buchanan: Homicide Investigator
  • "I think those of us who cared so deeply for Russ ranted and raved and felt this was so unfair to take someone so special and so kind. There’s never an answer to why. There’s never an answer to why evil wins sometimes." - JoLynn Snow: Russ Stager's Ex-Wife

TV Shows About This Case

  • City Confidential: Durham: Dangerous Housewife (s07e01)
  • The New Detectives: Women Who Kill (s04e06)

Last Words

In several episodes of Forensic Files, the victim’s spouse has events in their background that are questionable at best and suspicious at their worst. Barbara Ford’s ex-husband’s demise was one of these ‘red flag’ items. Larry Ford was “accidentally” shot in the chest while cleaning a .25 caliber pistol in bed. Despite Larry’s family’s vigorous requests to have their son’s case investigated as a homicide, it remained merely an accident. Of course, hindsight is 20-20, so when Russ was also killed “accidentally” in bed with a .25 caliber pistol, it’s easy to point a finger to Barbara’s past. But it’s curious why the Russ Stager shooting was so quickly deemed an accident before investigators could spend time analyzing the scene and help make that determination. Instead, Barbara and her father were allowed to destroy evidence of what turned out to be an egregious crime, instead of allowing the properly trained people help make this determination. The circumstances of Larry Ford’s death should have been considered before chalking up these shockingly similar events as mere coincidence.

Russ’s ex-wife JoLynn was an interesting character in the episode. She and Russ seemed to have maintained a close relationship after their divorce. It was indicated that Russ had confided in JoLynn regarding the suspicion he’d had about Larry’s “accidental” shooting. It was with JoLynn that Russ also shared the knowledge of Barbara’s moving large sums of money out of their account, and of her infidelity. To me, JoLynn seemed genuine and felt sincere remorse for Russ’s death.

One of multiple documents that Barbara was known to have forged
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Barbara’s attempt to demonstrate the events of that early, fateful morning was laughable. Trying to position herself and the detective playing Russ clearly indicated she was trying to make the circumstances align with the story she’d told investigators. In every case, the gun’s position when it “accidentally” fired due to its “hair trigger” was not nearly high enough to align with the bullet’s trajectory at the point of entry. And I laughed a little thinking about that detective lying in the bed, facing away from her while his gun was holstered on his right side – I’d have feared she might panic and grab it!

And how chilling was the victim’s audio tape? There’s nothing like the deceased victim himself sharing his fears of being killed by the perpetrator recorded just three days before the murder to help clinch a guilty verdict at trial. It was interesting to think how it was found, by a student while cleaning out a locker. The episode included a handwriting analyst to detect Barbara’s forgeries of Russ’s signatures on bank loans and a life insurance policy, but it didn’t mention a voice analyst to confirm Russ had recorded the audio tape. But it also implied that it wasn’t needed; apparently it was obvious the tape had been made by Russ and no one else. I wondered what the “aspirin” Barbara had attempted to get Russ to take really were? And if they were dangerous enough to kill him, where did she get them? If he only pretended to take them, couldn’t he have saved them and had them examined? Maybe he did, but he didn’t have time since he died only days later. Maybe they were barbiturates in an attempt to make him docile enough to suffocate. I guess only Barbara herself will ever know.

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I've been a fan of Forensic Files since the show's inception, and it is still my favorite true crime series. I have seen every episode several times, and I am considered an expert on the series and the cases it covers.